How life goes with emotion?

Today after I took bath I sat on the carpet blow drying my hair by a hair dryer. I started to think about the peaceful life of these days. There were several episodes in this week. Some of them are disturbing, some of them are amusing.

I remind when I was a youngster (I am not already) I was always getting irritated easily where I felt my right was violated. These days there were several occasions which made me unhappy but at those moments I held myself and thought about what have I done to incur these misfortunes?

If there are two ppl against each other in a very event. Most of the time ppl get angry and they start to defend for themselves. When one of the persons at the scene make a start of the defend, the other will find other ways to fight it back, and then there will be no end.

I think I did very good in these occasions these days at least I didn't think into bad directions when I was accused for something. I then complied with the person's opinion and do the way what he/she think of. In this way I persuaded myself I am not the smartest people in this room when another is trying to dominate it. And then, in the end, I found it very useful. The reasons are below:

• when I persuaded myself to do something I found it is obviously easier then persuade the other
• the opinions of others are not necessarily bad enough to make me uncomfortable
• if there is something wrong with it, there is always a solution later to solve it
• I don't have to be the source of trouble in this case

Sounds a little irresponsible huh...?! But it is truly hardy dame it right. I am gonna keep it in my mind. There is always a solution when you are trying to deal with "reasonable" people and the solution has a crucial point which is do make people think you pay respect to them. Then, things are mostly going to be fine.... :-)